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Sometimes the artist speaks right to you

"How do we forgive our fathers? Maybe in a dream. Do we forgive our fathers for leaving us too often, or forever, when we were little? Maybe for scaring us with unexpected rage, or making us nervous because there never seemed to be any rage there at all? Do we forgive our fathers for marrying, or not marrying, our mothers? Or divorcing, or not divorcing, our mothers? And shall we forgive them for their excesses of warmth or coldness? Shall we forgive them for pushing, or leaning? For shutting doors or speaking through walls? For never speaking, or never being silent? Do we forgive our fathers in our age, or in theirs? Or in their deaths, saying it to them or not saying it. If we forgive our fathers, what is left?"

Thomas Builds-the-Fire, at the end of the movie "Smoke Signals."

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cwmackowski
Jan. 17th, 2010 03:20 pm (UTC)
I was just writing about forgiveness last night, in fact. Wow.

And of course you know this particular topic, this particular type of forgiveness, weighs on me these days....
rulefive
Jan. 17th, 2010 03:44 pm (UTC)
Wonderful questions. I would also like to know the answers.
vivitalia
Jan. 17th, 2010 07:41 pm (UTC)
Great questions. Yes, to most, for me. Anger, hatred, resentment are powerful, destructive emotions. Personally, I try to hold onto as little of those as I can. Easier said than done, of course. But to each his own.
nodressrehersal
Jan. 17th, 2010 08:13 pm (UTC)
That packs quite a punch, doesn't it... wow.
neverapplicable
Jan. 18th, 2010 11:46 am (UTC)
BEST MOVIE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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